Bar/Bat Mitzvahs

Bar/Bat Mitzvahs

One of our time-honored traditions is welcoming young members of our community into adulthood during their Bar/Bat Mitzvah ceremony. The ceremony marks a day of sanctity, achievement, family gathering and communal celebration.

The preparations begin long before your Bar/Bat Mitzvah day. This milestone represents the culmination of many years of study and the beginning of a child’s participation and responsibility in the Jewish community as an adult.

To mark this special occasion, the Bar/Bat Mitzvah is called to the Torah for an aliyah (honor), typically reads all or part of the Torah portion and recites the Haftarah. The Bar/Bat Mitzvah also delivers a short D’var Torah (teaching) relating to the Torah portion.

Congregation Beth Shalom has developed several tools to help you and your family prepare for this momentous life­cycle event. The best overall advice we can give though, is to remember to savor this important and joyful event in your child’s life. Try not to let the many details and decisions associated with this experience overpower the religious importance of this day for you and your family.

The Beth Shalom clergy and staff are here to help you. We want the memories of your child’s simcha to be happy and look forward to working with your family to make this event meaningful and memorable.

*Please note: We require all B’nei Mitzvah to have been enrolled in religious or day school from grades 3 – 7 at a minimum. Please contact the Rabbi or Director of Congregational Learning to discuss your family’s unique needs regarding this policy.

We welcome interfaith families to participate in life cycle events such as B’nei Mitzvah. For more information, please speak to the Rabbi.  

Sign up for upcoming B’nei Mitzvah Workshops:

Tallit & Tefillin

Writing a D’var Torah

Tikkun Olam Project

For more information regarding B’nei Mitzvah, please contact the Ritual Coordinator.

B’nei Mitzvah Resources

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14200 Lamar Avenue, Overland Park, KS 66223
Phone - (913) 647-7279

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